When the new year begins you wonder how was your sex life last year? What questions would be good that we did on this issue in order to improve it?
There are three very important question in the sexual life of each person things: the frequency with which I have sex, the intensity of those relations and the level of satisfaction or welfare of such decisions in my life. These three factors can give us valuable information on how my sex life if I want to stop and think and reflect on it. However, and to facilitate this assessment of our sex life, we present below is a small test, in which you can obtain an overall quantitative score on this topic.
1. When you go to start a sexual relationship, there are words, kisses, bites, caresses, games or other physical or mental stimulants interaction in which there is still no genitalia?
2. Do I have genital satisfactory practices manual, oral or other sex before penetration time you would like?
3. Do I have orgasms during intercourse although not penetration?
4. My partner and I have intercourse orgasms during intercourse?
5. When I have sex I miss my daily life?
6. Do I like the number of relationships I have?
7. Do I like the range of sexual practices that I have?
8. Both of us were satisfied after sexual intercourse?
9. When I have sex I remain physiologically satisfied?
10. Do I feel full psychologically with my sex?
If in our thoughts and in our test we appreciate that our sex life is not what we would or failure somewhere, it would be good that did us a serious question about it, asking ourselves, the first thing is to be aware of whether it is a personal problem, the couple, both sex or unwanted approaches vital that we move through inertia and have us trapped in the daily dynamics without stop and consider how to change them.
Then we should put the batteries and start, first, to become aware that something needs to be changed, grabbing medium fears that may cause the subject to be a topic like sex, or vertigo that changes may occur.
The second thing is that change will not fall from the sky, so it is better to think that what does not actively change will never be changed, and finally spend the time and effort necessary good run to get where they want, because in any important thing in life, and sex is, there are no formulas wonderful, but progressive learning that then result in major life satisfactions.
The goal of our genetic program in reproduction, is that we have copies of our DNA, the more and higher quality, better; therefore the possibility that the person chosen in the case of women, make copies to others, and that a choice for us, in the case of men, person will have copies that are not mine, creates great anxiety, so that in this way, take time, effort and energy to keep this from happening and also take time to dress up and show.
The cultural program, this time, is added to enhance the discomfort, as being a deluded person, which have been cuckolded is something that has to produce us great discomfort, pain, break our security, sink our self-esteem , feel inferior, guilty … because we have not been able to maintain, defend and get the exclusivity of that person to us, and our life must be under this program, severely damaged by not having achieved. Through good dressing sense and wearing expensive latest fashion clothing you can always impress your partner.
Regarding the pathological program, in this issue of jealousy, there are several different types that help to feel worse depending on the personality of departure and quantitative potential of each. You can not say that one would make us feel worse than another, since it is impossible to weigh the discomfort that occur each relative to the other, because it is a subjective and particular subject, what if it is clear, is that it occurs in all Where a high degree of suffering.